Day 22: 30 Days in the StepMom Trenches
A few days ago I published a post called ipod therapy regarding the relaxing benefit of listening to music and tuning out the chaos of the world and tuning in some great tunes. Today, I share with you my ultimate StepMom playlist:
- Living on a Prayer – Bon Jovi
- Hit Me With Your Best Shot – Pat Benatar
- How do I Live – Leann Rimes
- I am the Warrior – Scandal
- R-E-S-P-E-C-T – Aretha Franklin
- God Bless the Broken Road – Selah
- Beautiful Day – U2
- Take Me On – A-Ha
- I Get Knocked Down – Chumbawamba
- (I Can’t Get No) Satisfaction – Rolling Stones
- Total Eclipse of the Heart – Bonnie Tyler
- Complicated – Avril Lavigne
- Isn’t it Ironic – Alanis Morissette
- Run so Far Away – Flock of Seagulls
- Waiting for the World to Change – John Mayer
- Don’t Worry Be Happy. – Bobby McFerrin
- Bringin’ on the Heartbreak – Def Leppard
- I’ve Done Everything For You – Rick Sprinfield
- Every Rose Has itsThorn – Poison
- Wanna Be Starting Something – Michael Jackson
Lesson from the StepMom Trenches: it’s fun to make playlists. I remember making mix tapes in college. I still have some of them except I don’t have a cassette player to play them on. It’s fun to set music to your life. The songs above touch my heart as a stepmom! Always loved Bon Jovi and I know that I’m Living on a Prayer each and every day!
Challenge: make a list of songs that make you smile. Consider downloading some songs from above or some that you choose. Check out some CDs at the library and make a mix tape. Have fun with music and make a list of songs that will cheer you up when you are starting to feel down. Music just puts us in a good mood!
What songs would you put on your ultimate StepMom playlist? Please share.
Stepmoms, you work hard at blending your family and making your home a respite from the stresses that can face the kids as well as you and your husband. You seek ways to ease tensions, connect with your stepchildren and fill your home with harmony and peace. You are committed to inspiring all the kids in your home and helping each child feel like a SuperStar!
Music is a powerful force in creating a relaxed and fun mood in our home, bringing our kids together and strengthening the relationships that I have with each of my six kids.
If your family is like mine, your house smiles a little brighter when there is music playing and/or the kids are singing. I love to see our kids working together to create plays and singing shows and then perform for my husband and I. Those are treasured moments and videos. It’s those times that I reflect on when the things aren’t so easy.
Music has been a blessing to my ten year-old stepdaughter. When she sings, its as if the problems of the day disappear for her. When I encourage her to sing and compliment her voice, she beams. Music has become a way for she and I to connect.
And it was during the David Cook season of American Idol that my oldest daughter and oldest stepdaughter truly bonded. I’d make them popcorn and smoothies and enjoy listening to them laugh, sing along, comment on Paula’s clothes and Simon’s comments and most importantly create shared memories.
“Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life” Berthold Auerbach
Does music play an important role in your family? Do your kids or stepkids dream of becoming a Superstar? Are you looking for something you can do with the kids to strengthen your bond with each of them? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then Quaker Chewy has an opportunity of a lifetime for you and the Big Voice or Voices in your home.
Yes! I am so excited to tell you about the Quaker Chewy Superstar Search. Quaker Chewy Granola Bars has teamed up with recording artist Nick Jonas and launched an incredible singing competition for kids. The Quaker Chewy Superstar Search is designed to give parents and stepparents of kids ages 8 – 14 a platform to showcase their kids’ BIG vocal talents.
The Quaker Chewy Superstar Search kicked off on June 8th and ends on August 5, 2011. Parents, stepparents or legal guardians of children ages 8-14 can work with their kids to record a performance and upload it to enter at www.ChewySuperstar.com.
The Grand Prize winner of the Quaker Chewy Superstar Search will get to record a song produced by Nick Jonas, a contract with Jonas Group Management, an online music video with a clip aired on national television and a $5,000 cash prize. Four finalists will receive a cash prize of $1,000. Now those are Superstar prizes!
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July 18 – 20 - Dallas metro area
July 26 and 28 - Denver metro area
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Just think your child or stepchild has the opportunity to be the first Quaker Chewy Superstar, record a song produced by Nick Jonas, sign a contract with the Jonas Group Management, make an online music video and receive $5,000 in cash!
I just love the fact that you get to work with your kids to choose the song, record it and upload it for the competition. It’s truly a family experience!
Because I believe in the power of music and the importance of music education, I am impressed that in addition to teaming up with Nick Jonas, Quaker Chewy has joined forces with the non-profit Little Kids Rock. Together, they are ensuring that music education is more accessible in schools across our great nation.
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Here are two of my superstars. After they finished singing,they ate their microphones (aka Quaker Chewy Cocoa Chocolatey Mint Bars)! Quaker helps “Nourish Their Play!”